The Man You Want Is
THE MAN THE WORLD NEEDS.

Thank you for doing what you are doing. I gave my boyfriend your book six months ago and asking him to read it. He ignored it. Six months later I ended the relationship. He was devastated. He picked up your book, listened to your podcast (among others), quit drinking, started seeing a counselor. We are now working through our own issues (I’m codependent. With shitty boundaries 😬) with the intention of being stronger together in the future. He is a forester, rap attack, hard working, BJJ brown belt. You were relatable to him and the ethos were straightforward and impactful.

I have also decided to stop drinking. Thank you so much for what you are doing. My girlfriend is now getting your book for her boyfriend :)

Thank you again!! 🙏🏻

Oh my god, I have hope again. Hope that I’m allowed to want the man you’ve written about. That I wasn’t asking for too much. That I wasn’t asking for more than I deserved.

Thank you. I am a 44-year-old widow raising three teenage sons. My late husband was unapologetically uncivilized.

Your book puts into words how I’ve been trying to raise them the last 4 years. I am a champion of uncivilized men, including the teenagers I teach daily.

God bless. Stay the course.

When my husband read your book, porn was one of the FIRST things he told me he was quitting! I was so floored and moved when I quit too. This has been a PORN-FREE household since February 🙌🏼❤️

What’s changed is our satisfaction, and a roaring sex drive, even in the midst of the worldly stress 🙌🏼 we’ve connected as individuals on a much deeper and vulnerable level, communicating much more vulnerably and often. I don’t think I even recognized how much porn was allowing us to deflect satisfying intimate sex with each other in exchange for fast and cheap sex with ourselves. Thank you so so much 🙏🏼

Just finished reading Man UNcivilized and I need to express my gratitude to you. Thank you for putting into words what I’ve been looking for in a man/ masculine partner. Thank you for calling up deeper integrity and drive and love from my own inner Masculine. As a woman, I feel so seen and held, reading your book about men !! Kinda trippy. I can feel Our Earth’s pride in your work and missing. May your work continue to bless you and your community. Deep love and gratitude, brother.

Every man I’ve met since my divorce I’ve sent your way. Basically if they can’t level up with your messages, books, podcast—I’m not interested 🙌🏽❤️

This book is a force. I read a chapter before bed every night and know there are men out there doing the work. I have faith in the world of men again. Thank you for that.

I bought this book as a single woman. Why? Because I love men. I deeply care about how men treat themselves, are treated and believe so much in the potential of solid partnerships where both parties are in their power.

Your book... gave me chills many times. I felt seen, honored, respected and for the first time in a long time, started to get excited about the prospect of dating again.

The energy and heart you put into this book is felt in its pages.

I look back at all the men in my life, the ones who I have hurt me because I could see unnamed potential, my father who never provided safety for me, just all of it... I had a hard time putting intp words what I was waiting for, but it's here. In your book, through you and the men you work with.

Dude my partner is loving it! It’s his favorite thing. It’s like a prayer of mine has been answered because I GET to have amazing conversations with a beautiful man on these topics! It’s a love language..the 6th love language. I like “touch, acts of service and uncivilized man talk” 😜

Thank you. Thank you for the courage to write in the way you did. This gives me so much hope for my sons.